For co-parents in high conflict
The REAL Wizard for Families
A place built to resolve things — not to stockpile evidence.
Beta members get one year of free access. Signing in needs a Google account for now — more ways to sign in are coming soon.
Email with extras doesn’t resolve anything
Most co-parenting apps are built around a message board. In a high-conflict family that board fills up with walls of text: case-building, mud-slinging, soap-box speeches — each message written for a judge who might read it one day.
Because the children never see those messages, a parent can say one thing there and something different at home. That triangulation breeds more division, not less. Nothing gets decided; it just gets stored.
Built for results, not for a war chest
Decisions, not threads
Every activity, expense and agreement gets a clear answer from each parent: agreed or not agreed. “Is soccer approved?” is one look, not an hour in an inbox.
Your parenting plan, applied
The plan’s provisions sit in one place, with the clarifications you work out together. Changing a word means proposing it — and both parents saying yes.
Short conversations, about one thing
There is no free-floating inbox. Every conversation belongs to something you are deciding, and it is kept short and to the point.
Written for the whole family
Most things are visible to everyone in the family, children included. When your kids may read it, you say it differently — and you can’t tell two stories.
Silence has a deadline
A proposed change takes effect after a week unless the other parent says no. Stonewalling stops working — and the record shows who didn’t answer.
Money without the arguments
Who paid, the split, what is owed. Paying back is recorded by one parent and confirmed by the other, so “I already paid you” is settled, not argued.
A reputation that speaks for itself
Like a seller’s rating, each co-parent builds a record of how they take part: do they answer, do they agree more than they disagree, do they ever offer anything positive, do they follow through? A report card for behavior — so the way to “win” is to cooperate.
Coming during the beta.
Different by design
| Message-board apps e.g. OurFamilyWizard | Family Coordinator | |
|---|---|---|
| At the center | A message inbox | Decisions, each with an answer from each parent |
| Conversations | Open-ended, any length | Short, and attached to the thing being decided |
| Who can read it | The parents | The whole family, unless something must stay between parents |
| When a parent doesn’t answer | The message waits | Proposals take effect after a week; silence is on the record |
| The record | Every message, kept for court | What was agreed, who cooperated — still kept, still admissible |
Still on the record. Still admissible.
Every answer, proposal and payment is dated and kept, and nothing can be edited after the fact. The difference is what the record is about: who agreed, who compromised, who followed through — not who wrote the longest message.